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Thursday, 22 May 2014

Sepia Saturday - Doll Memories


Sepia Saturday give bloggers an opportunity to share their family history and memories through photographs.






What has struck me in writing for Sepia Saturday is how limited the photographs were in my childhood -   either taken on a seaside holiday  or formal school portraits. Of course there was no flash for the average home camera - so no photographs of Christmas, birthday parties, or playing inside - nor do I have any taken in winter. So finding photos  for this prompt was a challenge.     

There were occasions when I stayed overnight with a friend (and vice versa), but the term "sleepover" had not yet reached us from America,  and it was very much a one-to-one arrangement - not a group of friends.  Even so we chatted into the night and did not get much sleep.  I cannot remember any photographs being taken of the occasion.

The same pattern continued with my own daughter and this is the nearest I can come to this week's theme - as she snuggled down in bed  with her menagerie  of furry friends. 





She  was never a particularly "teddy" girl - panda was her favourite.   Here is Scottie dog, with two owls perched on top of him and alongside  two pandas, a  koala  bear present  from Australia and a  Brownie, knitted from a pattern in "Woman's Weekly" magazine - a great source of ideas for home-made toys for children. 

What struck me in the prompt photograph is the girls looked quite grown up (by today's standard) to be playing with dolls.  

I was a "dolly girl" -  I loved my dolls  which, as my mother was a dressmaker, were the smartest in the street.  With my best friend, Carol, we would wheel  our dolls' prams up and down the street  and put the dolls in their cot (an old box), with a crocheted blanket and lace trimmed pillow and quilt cover, again  courtesy of my mother, or set up the doll's tea set for a tea party.

My dolls were not particularly sophisticated, though I had one that said "Mama" if you pressed it in the right place.  My mother made rag dolls, but my very special doll she made me in 1953 for the Queen's Coronation, with a long fur trimmed purple velvet train, and embroidered, beaded dress.  I so wish now I had kept it as a family heirloom.   

I had a "Last Doll" for my 11th birthday, which seems in today's lifestyle, really old for a doll. The inspiration came from the book "Sarah Crewe or the little Princess", by Frances Hodgson-Burnett, where Sarah was given a grand doll with an extensive wardrobe on her 11th birthday.   I saw the book serialised on television and decided that would mark the end of my "dolly" era - it didn't really,  as I went on to collect costume dolls. 

And no - I have no photographs of my dolls at all.

Around the age of 8, my own daughter had a collection of Cindy dolls - the British version of Barbie, I think - with a lovely wardrobe of clothes again made by  my mother.  

My  little granddaughter shows not the slightest interest in dolls but  she too  struggles to find  a place in bed amongst the myriad of soft toys.

So dolls remind me of my own childhood and my mother's talents - with.   below.  some of the dolls she later made for craft competitions and displays.
 
                  


An Upside-down Cinderella Doll




My mother Kathleen Weston, nee Danson
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Wednesday, 21 May 2014

Military Memories 22: A Stretcher Bearer's Death

Military Memories: 31 Writing Prompts to Celebrate Your Military Ancestors
Members of GeneaBloggers are invited to commemorate their military ancestors during  May 2014 by participating in  Military Memories: 31 writing prompts,  created by author Jennifer Holik. 

Today's theme:  Death in Service 






 
My great uncle George Danson (1894-1916) has featured a number of times on my blog  and a full profile of him as a soldier can be read at "A Stretcher Bearer in the Field" written for the Sepia Saturday prompt series.   

Do take a look,  as it is a poignant example of how many fine young men died in the First World War. I was fortunate to inherit from his sister Jennie (my great aunt) a collection of photographs and memorabilia which add so much to the story of his short life. 

George was a stretcher bearer in the Royal Army Medical Corps and died at the Somme  a week after his 22nd birthday  on September 16th 1916.

Left - A photograph, sent to his mother,  of George's grave.  It conveys in a stark way the reality of war amid the mud and blood that George must have experienced - and contrasts with the pristine white of the more lasting memorials that we recognise today.

In this post,  I have tried here to take a different approach on George's story by looking at the different roles he played as son, brother, uncle, friend, employee and finally soldier.

George is remembered as:

  • A  SON -  the youngest  of eight surviving sons of James (deceased) and Maria Danson of Poulton-le-Fylde, Lancashire.


George on the left with his teacher Mr  Lord and fellow pupils.
  • A BROTHER  - to  Harry, John, Robert, Albert, William. Tom, Frank  and only sister Jennie.
George on the  right with his brother Tom 
Taken by W. J. Gregson & Co, Photographers, 92 Talbot Road, Blackpool


  • AN UNCLE  to my aunt Edith and mother Kathleen Danson (right).  As the youngest of their Danson uncles,   George was nearest to them in age, their obvious favourite  and he took on the role of big brother.  They spoke fondly of him and recall the distress of their Granny  on the news of his death, 
  • A CHURCH MEMBER - George sang in the choir at St. Chad's Church in Poulton-le-Fylde - as referred to in his obituary in the local paper "Fleetwood Chronicle". 
A photograph taken by George's nephew (my uncle) Harry Rawcliffe Danson
  • A FRIEND  -  George had enlisted  January 1916 at Halifax,  West Yorkshire.  His service record (traced on Ancestry.co.uk)  gave his   address at the time as  17 Harker Street, Harley Bank,  Todmorden, with occupation station bookstall manager. 

    I turned to the 1911 census online  and found the Dodd family at  17 Harker Street, Harley Bank,  Todmorden, with head of household Elizabeth Dodd (occupation choring) and three daughters Amy aged 15 (a cotton weaver), Edna 12 (a fustian sewer)  and Lavinia  aged 9.  This photograph was found amongst the collection of George's sister Jennie, who wrote the inscription on the back.




  • AN EMPLOYEE -  in the 1911 census 16 year old George was described as a "bookstall newsboy". He later  worked on W.H. Smith station bookstalls in Poulton,  Manchester and Todmorden.
George in front of his station bookstall.
  • A SOLDIER
Two letters written by George in 1916 are with the family. The first written from army training camp on Salisbury Plain in March   was to his brother Robert with the words:
"I will tell you one thing it is no easy job the army life today & I am of the opinion as most of the chaps here that is that they won’t be sorry when it is all over.  However I will say there are times when I enjoy it immensely & other times I feel rather off it, being such a long way from home & all my friends, but we must all make the best of it."

The second written from France on  August 20th 1916 was to Frank - the brother neared to him in age.

"At present we are about 8 miles behind the firing line and getting along fairly well, but a day or two ago, I fully expected having to go right into the front line trenches but luckily escaped that, and had to assist with  wounded out 4 miles behind at a dressing station, and stuck to it for about 40 hours ad when finished I had a good rest.  We should not have worked so long only there has been a  (?) on & I’m  glad to say, we captured everything our chaps went out for, although it made us rather busy.  ...................


it’s blooming hard  work in a stretcher bearer on the field. On Friday afternoon I was in a big bombardment & will say it was like a continual thunder & lightening going off & as I write there  (?) blooming big guns about 50 yards away going every few minutes so you will see it's not great. ...... 


Don’t I wish that both yourself, Tom and myself and all of us could get home again for about a week.  Wouldn’t that be grand (?) lad, there’s a good time coming & I hope we shall all be there to join in."

It was not to be as three weeks later 
George was killed on the Somme.

Captain MacLeod in writing to George's wiopwed mother said:    "He was one of my stretcher bearers and was gallantly doing his duty over open and dangerous ground which suddenly became subjected to severe shell fire.  He continued steadily bearing his burden and was only stopped by the shell that took his life. We mourn his loss and are very proud of him". 

 

 The death announcement in the local paper read



The bugle may sound, the war drum may rattle
But no more they arouse their young hero to battle
For his King and his Country his life he nobly gave
And now he lies sleeping in a soldier's grave.

From:  Mother, Brothers, Sister, 2 Bull Street, Poulton-le-Fylde.

Guard's Cemetery, Les Boeufs, near Albert  - George's final resting place.


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Monday, 19 May 2014

The Book of Me: When I grow up, I want to be........

This  post was prompted by Julie at Anglers Rest  and  her  series " Book of Me - Written by You", where she asks us  to record,   for future descendants,   memories and insights about our own lives.  

 Here the theme is "When I Grow Up, I want to be......."

From an early age, after school visits to the local library,  I played at being a Librarian and remember one Christmas being delighted at getting in my stocking a date stamp.  I made up issue labels for my books, and dragooned my family into being customers, so I  could enthusiastically stamp away. 


When I started secondary school, my parents attended a parent's evening  and came back asking if I had any idea of what I wanted to do when I grew up - I had no strong views,  so said a Librarian as that's  what came into my head, plus it was a way of getting my parents off my back!

My father was keen for me to go into a bank, as he thought that was a good job for a girl (it was the 1950's!),  As I was  hopeless at maths, I knew this would not be for me. I also knew I could never be a nurse, (a popular career choice at the time),   as I had a great fear of anything to do with hospitals.  

I read all the gamut of career fiction  and articles in "Girl" magazine  - Sue Barton District Nurse, Angela Air Hostess, Belle of the Ballet, Kay from "the Courier", Claudia of the Circus etc.

Becoming an Air Hostess was regarded as the glamour job of the day  and I rather fancied the idea of travel - but realistically I knew,  even at that age, I did not fit the image - being child who wore glasses and had straight hair in plaits or a pony tail.

Later on, going into the Civil Service was a career path suggested to me - but no-one would actually tell me  what would I be doing in  the Civil Service?  Teaching was an obvious easy career option for a girl, and I did toy with the idea - I liked young children and played the piano (an asset in those days)  but my aunt, an infant head, was not exactly encouraging.  


So what did I become?  A  Librarian - and yes I did conform a bit to the stereotyped image - the glasses did it!  

Does anyone remember the Smirnoff vodka advert where the librarian (dowdy clothes, hair in a bun and of course wearing spectacles), whips off her glasses,  loosens her hair shaking it into a tousled look, shortens her skirt, undoes her top buttons  - and gets a new look and new life?    I can't say that was me, though I did have a spell at  wearing contact lenses.

Instead,  I spent my time trying to counteract the image that all librarians did was a boring task of stamping  books! 

And what was my working life really like?
  My employment history could be summed up as "Fish Girl to Family Historian"



Fish Girl - My first job the summer I left school was helping out at a fishmonger's owned by a friend's father who was looking for some one to fill in for staff on holiday. It was totally out of character for me, but I stuck it out gutting some fish (for making herring rolls, I think), washing down the slabs and I managed somehow to cope with the cash side - maths was never my strong point and this was before the days of electronic tills. At home we ate healthily from the left over stocks of fish I took back to Mum.



Shop Girl for Cakes, Books & Tartan Trash -  For future summer and Christmas jobs, I opted for a less messy side of retail life, ranging from a busy bakery counter (dreaded having to make up the cardboard cake boxes in a hurry as I was all thumbs) to selling what we called "tartan trash" to tourists on Princes Street in Edinburgh - think garish red tasteless Stewart tartan souvenirs. 

My favourite was a bookshop where I enjoyed tidying the shelves and making sure everything was in order from the Pan and Penguin paperbacks in their familiar white and orange covers to the Classics, bound in mock midnight blue leather.     One Christmas I worked in a general stationery store that sold calculators and was clueless when facing questions such as "Why was this one more expensive and what did it do?" 

I can't recollect receiving anything that could be called "training" - you were just expected to turn up on time, wear an often ugly uniform, pick up procedures, work hard, have plenty of stamina to be on your feet all day, be respectful to superiors, especially if there was the dreaded visit from Head Office, get on with the job - and sink or swim. Life could  be  boring if there were not many customers around, but if the shop was busy,  it became a good source of anecdotes when I met up with fellow students,  as we exchanged horror stories of our holiday jobs. 

Stuck in a Snowstorm - I studied history at university, and as a student had various Saturday and holiday jobs in Edinburgh City Libraries, most memorably getting stuck in a mobile library on a hill in a snowstorm!   


An American Adventure:    Having always lived at home, I took the plunge to move 3000 miles trans-Atlantic.   I had the chance to work in the USA for a year as part of an exchange scheme for trainee librarians and my placement was at Radcliffe College, the sister college to Harvard in Cambridge, Mass. I loved Boston and New England, and took advantage, with another British girl I met, of taking the Greyhound bus offer of "99 dollars for 99 days of travel" around the States - a wonderful time.





At the Cutting Edge - My second professional job after library school  was as Information Officer at the  Edinburgh's College of Education in Edinburgh  with a remit to set up a Modern Studies Information Resource. This was long before the Internet, and the role involved setting up project files of ephemera - mainly press cuttings, and compiling source lists for students. I got to look though all the quality daily papers - a great job and nothing boring about it.    I had always fancied working as a newspaper librarian, or as a BBC researcher, though jobs are few and far between, so this was coming close to it. 


Dumbo to Dinosaurs  - I was a stay-at-home Mum, when a newsletter from my daughter's primary school announced that a school auxiliary had been asked to set up a library in the school. My professional hackles arose - obviously a job that the head teacher felt anyone could do! So I got in touch, took on the role,  and I was back classifying the school collection  and creating a catalogue. As it was a voluntary task, I could take my time and have a good look through all the books, with dinosaurs seeming to be the most popular topic - not one I could relate to. 

Was the Abbey Bombed?  This was one of the very many quirky queries I faced  when working in the local tourist information centre network for over 20 years.  It was never dull as we helped visitors get the most out of  of their holiday and was a source of many  humorous anecdotes.  And the  answer to the question?   Well - the 12th century Jedburgh Abbey was destroyed in 1544 by Henry VIII's army which invaded south Scotland in what was known as the "Rough Wooing" as Henry  tried to enforce the marriage of his son Edward to the young Mary Queen of Scots  - some 400 years before World War Two fighter planes.  I loved this job - meeting people from all over the world, answering questions, preparing displays and compiling fact sheets. 


Back to my Roots - Following redundancy, and a spell of free lancing in tourism,  I went back to my academic roots of history and librarianship,  working in the Library Service's Local Studies Dept. Not quite a full circle, but almost. My final role was as Family History Researcher at the Heritage Hub, Hawick - and how many people can say they found a job linked to a hobby - and we all know that family history can be exciting, adventurous and never boring!


So   -  being a librarian has served me very well!
. 
The Heritage Hub, Hawick, Scottish Borders
www.heartofhawick.co.uk/heritagehub

[This article has been adapted from a posting in 2011] 



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Saturday, 17 May 2014

Military Memories 17 - A Wartime Telegram

Military Memories: 31 Writing Prompts to Celebrate Your Military AncestorsMembers of GeneaBloggers are invited to commemorate their military ancestors during  May 2014 by participating in  Military Memories: 31 writing prompts,  created by author Jennifer Holik. 


Today's theme - Communication







My parents - John & Kathleen Weston d
I came across this telegram whilst sorting through papers following the deaths of my father and mother, John and Kathleen Weston nee Danson.   I love the design and the message, with the frank on the reverse showing it was sent on December 31st 1941.  

My father was then serving in the Codes and Cipher Branch of the Ministry of Defence in Whitehall, London and had witnessed the Battle of Britain over London earlier in the autumn of 1941.

Very movingly I also discovered a series of letters, still in their envelopes,  exchanged between my parents during 1944-45 when my father  was in France and Germany.

  
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These stories of my family's military service have featured before on my blog.
But I am pleased to take this different approach suggested by Jennifer
and am proud to join in this challenge. 


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Friday, 16 May 2014

Military Monday: A POW's Lonely Homecoming

We have been watching on television the moving ceremonies in London to mark VJ. Day and the release of the Japanese prisoners of war.  I was immediately drawn back to my father's account of the release of his brother Charles.


The telegram sent in September 1945 to my father from his brother, Charles Weston
  released from Japanese prisoner of war camp. 

Charles'  story is  told in the poignant  words of my father who wrote down his  memories for me.  

"Uncle Charles (right) was a POW on the Bridge of the River Kwai — at least it was a bridge when the hundreds of POWs had finished it. Conditions were dreadful, 100s died through lack of food, mostly slops, no solids. Charles had beri-beri, dysentery, ulcers and malaria. 

After the atomic bomb fell on Japan,  the POWs on the bridge were taken to Singapore and stayed in Changhai Jail until shipped home. My Mum and Dad never expected to see him again.

 In 1942 they got a card through the Red Cross — from the War Minister which read “Regret to inform you that your son has been posted missing”. Dad packed up work and the news broke him — he was never the same again.

 It was at Christmas 1943 that Mum got a card from the Red Cross with a few words “I am safe and well” — “Safe” yes…..”Well” -  Certainly Not. 

In August 45, lists of Japanese P.O.W.s  were coming out and I was looking for Charles'  name. 

I was so sorry for Charles, as he arrived in Liverpool with no-one able to meet him. I was in Burma and my mother could not leave my Dad.   You were just a baby and Mum was miles away and could not go.  It was lonely homecoming for a POW".


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Charles (left)  and my father John Weston were close as brothers and had these nicknames for one another  -  "Ace"  and "Mel".  Unfortunately I failed to ask my father about the origin of the names and neither my cousin Janice nor I  have been able to find out anything.   Were Mel and Ace popular radio characters, for instance?   I would love to know, if anyone out there has any idea? 

Below   is a long letter Charles wrote to my father in November 1945.    It starts "Dear Mel" and is signed "Keep batting - Ace".




Brothers - John and Charles Weston. c/1936




A year after the war, it was  a happier time when Charles married Vera Botell in December 1946. 

I am the shivering little bridesmaid,
standing in front of my parents.


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This story has appeared before on my blog, but I am pleased to publish it again as a tribute to all those who suffered in the war in the Far East.
Military Monday is just one of many daily prompts from Geneabloggers
 to encourage bloggers to record their family history.  

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