Sepia Saturday - Bobs, Waves and Rolls

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This week's main theme was Aprons.  My mother  was a great apron wearer and maker - from the wrap-around overall for wash day, and the pocket apron for carrying dusters and polish  up and down stairs to the butcher's apron style for baking to the dainty frilled waist pinny for serving tea. She made them all herself and was a stalwart sewer for any local fete or Christmas fair. But I have no photographs of her in her work-a-day wear.  

 So, looking at the lady on the left here,  I have focussed instead on hairstyles of the 1920's. 30's and 40's

 

The impact on the First World War on the changing role of  women saw an abandonment of the  traditional long hair styles of the Victorian period to the new short styles of the bob, finger-wave, Marvel wave, shingle and Eton crop, with their popularity continuing well into the 1930's.

 

 An elegant unidentified portrait in my husband's collection -

thought to be a relation of his great aunt Annette.  

 

 

 

My great aunt Jennie Danson  who sacrificed her long plait for the new look.

 



My mother Kathleen Danson -Jennie's niece,
though there was only 11 years difference in their ages.  

My mother again - with more waves this time



My mother's second cousins Elsie Oldham - "Elise" c. 1920's

I have told the story of Elsie before on my blog,  but it fits this theme so beautifully I could not help but repeat it.

 

 

Bobbing, Shingling, Marcel Waving and Perming", was the promise of my mother's second cousin Elsie Oldham in  this lovely evocative 1920's advertising  blotter.

Perhaps the French adaptation of her name to Elise was regarded as more appropriate for a hairdresser.   The business was conducted from the rather less glamorous setting of her home (below) with the large adverts  in the windows and on the pole outside  

 



The Oldham home in Blackpool, Lancashire
with the adverts in the window & on the garden pole.





In the 1930''s and 1940's  a  softer look crept in, with curls and waves all the rage, and during the war the "roll" was the defining style.  This was the age of trying to emulate  Hollywood glamour, despite the realities  of life during the  depression and war. 
                                  



My mother again - Kathleen Danson

My aunt - Edith Danson

Another new look for my mother who seems to have adopted an Austrian style, with what looks like  braids over  her head.  She was always very proud of her distinctive widow's peak.

Some typical 1940's looks from my mother and Aunt Peggy

My aunt Peggy Danson 

 



 

   

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Advent Calendar of Christmas Menories 3 - Music

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To me Christmas means singing. One of my earliest memories is taking part in a primary school (girls only) nativity play, singing solo the first verse of "We Three Kings of Orient Are" and wearing a cardboard crown with jewels made from fancy sweetie papers. I have never wanted to sing solo since.

 In another Christmas concerts, my role was to play the triangle in the percussion band - a bit of a come down from the most desired instrument that everyone longed to get - the sleigh bells.

One family get-together, after the meal, we children did our party pieces, with mine on the piano. My little brother decided to plough his way through all 12 verses of "The Twelve Days of Christmas". He developed hiccups and his long socks kept falling down - this was the days of lads in short trousers, despite the weather.   But he was determined to finish singing the carol, kept pulling his socks up and by the end, we were all falling about laughing and we never allowed him to forget this occasion.


At secondary school we always had a carol service where the tradition was to sing some carols in foreign languages - so for French "It est ne le divin enfant" or "Qui est cette odour agreeable", German was "O Tannenbaum", "Es ist ein Rose entsprungen" or "Stille Nacht, heilige Nacht" and Latin always "Adeste Fideles".

My father sang in the church choir and my mother in the Townswomen's Guild Choir and being a choir member myself has been one of my key interests. In autumn, out came the orange, green and blue books of "Carols for Choirs" (Oxford University Press) as we prepared for our Christmas concerts, looking for a mixture of old favourites and newer arrangements and trying to come up with slightly different themes e.g. Carols from Around the World, Carols Down the Centuries, Carols for All Ages etc. (I know, not exactly original, but then Christmas is a time for tradition). 


My own favourite carols  have not changed much over the years "Silent Night", "In the Bleak Mid Winter", "Three Kings from Distant Lands Afar" and "O Holy Night". I like the simple unadorned arrangements best - nothing too fancy, but the descants of the standard choral classics such as "Hark the Herald Angels Sing", I find it so uplifting as the sopranos soar up to the high notes. We always ended the concert with a lively rendition of "We wish you a Merry Christmas" followed by the serving of mince pies and mulled wine to complete one of my "must do" Christmas activities - a great start to the Christmas Spirit.

It is much the same with that other staple Christmas music - Handel's "Messiah" which I have sung many times and it never palls. An unforgettable, wonderful experience was singing in the Royal Albert Hall in London in a "Come and Sing" Messiah in a choir of 1000, with orchestra, organ and a packed audience. Singers came from all over Britain and Europe to take part, so there was a great buzz and camaraderie as we found our seats. It was altogether marvellous, moving and exhilarating, and at the end, I walked out on a high!

Classic FM is my favourite radio station and come December 1st we know we are in for a feast of carols and Christmas music. On Christmas Eve, it is time to watch on TV the beautiful candlelight carol service from Kings College Chapel, Cambridge.

So for me, Christmas would not be Christmas

without the enjoyment of seasonal music!

 

Adapted from a posting of 2012, but I hope it will be of interest to my new readers.

“The Advent Calendar of Christmas Memories (ACCM) allows you to share your family’s holiday history twenty-four different ways during December! Learn more at http://adventcalendar.geneabloggers.com.”

 

 

 

 

Advent Calendar of Christmas Memories 2 - Cards

 

 

This lovely German Christmas card came from the my husband's collection.  His uncle Mattie married a German girl in the 1950's.     

 

 

Christmas Card Scrapbooks

One of my favourite post Christmas occupations is to create a Christmas Scrapbook. It seems such a shame to bin so many lovely images that I have come up with my own way of retaining the cards for future pleasure.

I began doing this years ago when my daughter was small, with "Gillian's Christmas Scrapbook" (right) a way of conveying the Christmas story, message and traditions in a strong visual way and displaying cards that had been spent especially sent to her. I hand-wrote the words as this was long before the days of computers. The scrapbook came out of the cupboard every Christmas to look through and reminiscence over and it became part of our family tradition which now includes our little granddaughter.

More years down the line, I had a growing collection of cards that I had refused to throw out, so I created something similar in a more adult version calling it "Christmas Kaleidoscope"- (above left) annotated this time by the computer, which of course made a huge difference to the style of presentation.

By then I had the bug, so the next year it was "A Christmas Anthology", (left) using the cards to illustrate poems, songs and literature relating to Christmas.

Last year the theme was "Christmas A-Z" (right) focusing on a wide range of aspects of the Christmas story. What would I do without the internet to help with history and definitions?

I do mean to stop - but already my mind is on a new theme - perhaps looking at the stories behind Christmas carols.

Since I began, scrapbooking has become a sophisticated hobby, but I have kept to a very simple style with the focus on the illustrations.

So to anyone who sends me a card, it continues to give pleasure long after the 12 days of Christmas have past.

 

 

Adapted from a posting of 2012, but I hope it will be of interest to my new readers.  

 

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“The Advent Calendar of Christmas Memories (ACCM) allows you to share your family’s holiday history twenty-four different ways during December! 

Learn more at http://adventcalendar.geneabloggers.com.”

 

 

 

 

Advent Calendar of Christmas Memories 1 - Trees

 

It would not be Christmas without a Christmas tree.  We did start off married life with the real thing - but I had enough of trying to get  pine needles off the carpet, so we went onto an artificial tree - traditional style  - no modern, minimalist designer trees in our home!

Reading some of the house-style magazines, some people focus on colour themes such as silver & blue, or red & gold etc. for their Christmas Trees.f

For our family the Christmas Tree is one of happy memories.

In the past it featured my young daughter's home-made decorations - who can forget the bells made from egg cartons covered in baking foil?

Now the Christmas tree signifies our interests - we have collected items whenever we have been on holiday abroad - mainly Austria and Bavaria, but also Bruges, Prague and Poland -  stockings, hearts and bells abounding.

 

Reflecting our other pastimes are miniature musical instruments and cross stitch items.



 

Discovering the decorations again when we get the boxes down from the loft is pleasure in itself . Our tree is quite small but looking at it every year, brings back memories of happy times.  

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Adapted from a posting in December 2011, but I  hope it will be of interest to my newer readers.

The Advent Calendar of Christmas Memories (ACCM) allows you to share your family’s holiday history twenty-four different ways during December!
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Sepia Saturday - Beards and Boys

Sepia Saturday give bloggers an opportunity to share their family history and memories  through photographs.


Moustaches, showmen, trophies and bathing suits don't feature much  in my collection - so here is a hotch-potch of vaguely related photographs to mark this week's prompt.

No moustaches and only one beard amongst  my ancestors - this photograph (one of my favourites) is of my bearded great grandfather James Danson (1852-1906) of Poulton-le-Fylde, Lancashire.  Though his companion in arms is sporting a fine white moustache.

Little knowledge has come down through the family on James Danson who died before the birth of my mother and aunt. Anecdotal evidence does not reflect creditably on him - he was by all accounts of his grandchildren a bit of a ne-er do well - in contrast to the obvious respect for “Granny”. He certainly looks quite  a character in the only  photograph I have of him sitting merry in Poulton stocks.

 

James was born in 1852 at Trap Farm, Carleton, the nineth child  of Henry Danson and Elizabeth Calvert. A joiner, he married 18 year old Maria Rawcliffe in 1877.  It was ironic that Maria,  one of eight daughters,  and James with six sisters (and two brothers) should go on to have ten sons before their only daughter Jennie in 1897.   

 

James died at the age of 53 on 20th September 1906, An informative  report in "The Fleetwood Chronicle and Fylde Advertiser" of 28th September noted:  "The deceased gentleman who was 53 years old was a native of Poulton. His father was toll collector at Shard Bridge for 14 years.  Mr Danson had been ill for soem time but had only recently taken to his bed.  The chief mourners were Mrs Danson (wife), Messrs Robert, John, Tom, Willie Danson (sons) and Mr John Danson (brother from Clitheroe), Miss Cookson (niece), Mrs Riley, Mrs Roskell and Mrs Geo Riley (sisters-in-law), Mrs Porter, and Mr Threlfall.  There were a number of beautiful wreaths."

There was no reference in the funeral report to James' first born son Harry who died a year later at the age of 30, nor to the younger sons Albert, Frank and George, and  only daughter Jennie, but perhaps as children they did not attend or  did not warrant a mention.

Above  is the uncropped version of the photograph which was found in the  collection of my great aunt Jennie. Very fortunately she had written names on the reverse.  Poulton-le-Fylde  is a small town east of its more famous neighbour the seaside holiday resort  of Blackpool.  Poulton, though has the far longer history, noted for the old church of St. Chad's and its market square with a stone slab table for selling wares, and for those who fell foul of the law the old whipping post and stocks. All are still standing to be seen today.

 

No trophy on view here but an entertaining story of sports success which  I have featured before on my blog - here told in Dad's own words

Dad - John P. Weston -  grew up in Broseley, near Ironbridge, Shropshire. "I was mad keen on soccer, so much so that I had a trial at Birmingham with the English schoolboys. My teacher took me in his car to that and to a second trial at Shrewsbury.   

One Saturday when I was working as an errand boy, two directors from Birmingham Football Club came to see Dad and Mum to sign me on - they refused, saying I was too young to be away from home. I was not told about this until later and sulked for a month!

But a bit of glory followed, when my school team entered a cup competition. I was vice-captain and we got to the final - and won the cup, the first ever for Broseley.

 

One of the supporters took a carrier pigeon along with us and set it loose at the end to let Brosely know the result and to prepare  a welcome for our return to the village."  

Apparently a photograph was taken of the team's success, but no pictures of my father's early life passed down the family. Unfortunately I only had a broad indication of year for the event, which made tracing it in local newspapers difficult.    In an effort to find out more, I contacted  Broseley Historical  Society who put my enquiry on their online newsletter.    I am delighted to say I heard from three members of the society with more personal memories   - and even better with  a photograph of the winning football team.  My father on the middle row right, was  identified as Perce Weston. I always thought he hated his middle name Percy, but he seemed to be known by that in school records.  

This is the  earliest photograph I have of my father and I am so grateful  to the Society for filing this gap in my family history.   



My father is on the right of the middle row, identified as Perce Weston.

My father retained his love of football all his life and was an avid watcher of matches on television right up to his death at the age of 91. 

Does anyone remember from their childhood scratchy knitted swimsuits with straps, which turned heavy, soggy and uncomfortable if you ventured into water?  Here is my 3 year old brother sporting one, which I have  no doubt was knitted by my mother. 

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Butler's Secret Marriage to Heiress - Black Sheep Sunday

A "Downton Abbey" story if there ever was one! For it came to light that butler Haydon Lounds had secretly married heiress Miss Maud Ward Fox - the daughter of his employer, a wealthy widow.  

On her death in 1911 Mrs Eleanor Ward-Fox  left in her  will £13,000 to her daughter, Maud,  with a legacy of £200 to "my butler Lounds in my service at my death".

A Secret Marriage Ceremony in 1909:   However  not known at the time of Mrs Ward-Fox's death was the fact that butler Haydon Lounds, a good looking  and well educated man, according to a newspaper report, had been for three years the husband of Maud, following a secret marriage ceremony in Devon in 1909.   The online Index to marriages confirms this event.

 

Single in the Census of 1911:  But in the 1911 census Haydon was still describing   himself as single  - a 38 year old  bachelor,  still working as a butler for the Ward-Fox family - Mrs Eleanor Ward-Fox, her  older daughter Gertrude and Maud, 30, (also cited in the census as single) all living at Bramhope, Torquay in a household that included a footman, groom, cook, kitchen maid and two housemaids.  Mrs Ward Fox died later that year at the main family home in Bakewell, Derbyshire.

 

Change of Name: The wedding was kept a secret for three years and was first reported in the then "Morning Post" Feb 9th 1912 when Haydon changed his surname by deed poll to Haydon Stephen-Fox. 

 

No children were born to the marriage, with Maud dying 1945 and Haydon two years later. 

 

Background

This story came to light when a cousin  asked me to help trace  information about  his maternal grandmother Sarah Haydon Lounds who married my great uncle John Danson (right in the only photograph I have of him) ).  

 

Sarah was born in Worksop, Nottinghamshire in 1884.  Sadly she  died at the young age of 21 in 1906, soon after the birth of their daughter Annie.  My cousin was keen to find out the background to Sarah's middle name - Haydon.  He knew little  other than of family connections with Lincolnshire and Nottinghamshire and some kind of scandal with  a "black sheep" of the family who had been a servant in a large country house.

 

Using standard online resources,  I traced Sarah''s father to be George Haydon Lounds  and her brother Haydon Lounds (1873-1947) who was named after his grandfather  - another  Haydon Lounds, a coachbuilder in Grantham, Lincolnshire.  The Haydon name came from two  generation further back when  in 1814 a Thomas Lounds married a Sarah Haydon.  The name Haydon was passed down through many generations and branches of the family and I was grateful to an internet contact for filling me in with details  on this  "black sheep" of the family.  

 

The story of "Searching for Sarah" is for another post - so do watch this space!


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Sepia Saturday - A Shot that Rang Around the World

Sepia Saturday give bloggers an opportunity to share their family history and memories  through photographs.

This week's prompt has a serious tone with a 1914 photograph of Archduke Ferdinand of Austria in Sarajevo, shortly before his  assassination - an event which proved the spark  leading to the outbreak of the First World War.

 

We are asked to write about a  momentous moment. 9/11 immediately came to mind, but I have blogged about that a few times, so have chosen  to go with this week's anniversary of the assassination of President Kennedy.  

 

 

"The shot that rang around the world"

 

22nd November 1963 - The Assassination of President Kennedy

 

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 We were watching TV in the early evening when a special "over to our newsroom" announcement cut into the programme we were watching - that usually heralded news of a disaster or a major royal story.  But instead  we heard about the shocking news of President Kennedy being shot in Dallas.

During Kennedy's election campaign I was still at school and JFK was someone we admired - he combined charisma, looks and idealism.   Young and energetic-looking for a world leader, he made such a contrast with our own elderly Prime Minister Harold Macmillan who seemed to epitomise the stuffy Edwardian period  of 60 years past.  We also  poured over the photographs of Jackie Kennedy  (the Princess Diana of her day), with her flicked hair, little pill box hats and stylish shift dresses.     

 We saw on TV JFK's powerful inauguration speech, his meeting with Khrushchev, his speech at the Berlin Wall and my father got up during the night to hear on the radio  his statement on the Cuban missile crisis which threatened world peace in a nuclear age.  We felt part of a new era.  

I had never lost anyone close to me, yet President Kennedy's death hit me hard.  For a long time I kept the newspapers covering the tragedy and I bought a memorial book of his life.  Perhaps it was something to do with the impact of television bringing it much closer to home - we saw the motor cavalcade and the shots being fired;  Jackie Kennedy  still in the bright pink.  now  blood splatted.  suit as she witnessed  the swearing in of the new President:  the solemn lying in state ceremony at the Capitol as Jackie and her little daughter Caroline knelt beside the coffin;  and yet more violence with the shooting of Lee Harvey Oswald by Jack Ruby.  I stayed off university lectures to watch the funeral on TV and wept at the sight of Jackie and her two young children. 

Only three years later I was in Boston, USA on a year's work exchange programme.  With another British girl we travelled around the country on the Greyhound bus, before returning home. On our itinerary were Dallas and Washington DC where we  visited Arlington Cemetery to see  President Kennedy's grave.  Today this would probably be termed "grief tourism", but we saw it a paying tribute to a world leader - a man shot down in his prime.

 

 

We were also part of the crowd at  the opening in Boston  of the JFK Library, attended by Robert and Edward Kennedy.    It is amazing to think back at the low level of security, as I was able very easily to  take  these photographs and even had Robert Kennedy sign the souvenir programme.  Two years on and Robert Kennedy himself was shot dead in Los Angeles whilst on a Presidential election campaign.

 

 

I know the Kennedy legend has long since been tarnished.  But that tragic day 50 years ago in November was for me, over 3000 miles away in Scotland,   a momentous event that has stayed in my memory.  

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